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The Estate Planning Checklist: 7 Steps Every Family Needs

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Marcus Williams, CFP
Certified Financial Planner
March 12, 2026
6 min read
The Estate Planning Checklist: 7 Steps Every Family Needs

A practical, no-jargon guide to getting your estate plan in order — from naming beneficiaries to setting up a power of attorney.

Step 1: Take Inventory of Your Assets

Before you can plan, you need to know what you have. List everything: bank accounts, investment accounts, real estate, life insurance policies, retirement accounts, vehicles, and valuable personal property.

Step 2: Name Your Beneficiaries

Beneficiary designations on retirement accounts and life insurance policies override your will. Make sure they're current and reflect your wishes.

Step 3: Choose Your Documents

At minimum, most families need:

A will or revocable living trust
A durable power of attorney (financial)
A healthcare proxy or healthcare power of attorney
An advance healthcare directive (living will)

Step 4: Appoint the Right People

Choose carefully:

Executor/Trustee: Manages your estate after death
Power of Attorney: Makes financial decisions if you're incapacitated
Healthcare Proxy: Makes medical decisions if you can't
Guardian: Raises your minor children

Step 5: Fund Your Trust

A trust is only effective if your assets are actually titled in the trust's name. This step — called "funding" — is where many DIY plans fail.

Step 6: Store Your Documents Safely

Keep originals in a fireproof safe or with your attorney. Tell your executor and healthcare proxy where to find them.

Step 7: Review Every 3–5 Years

Life changes. Marriage, divorce, new children, deaths, major asset changes — all are triggers to update your plan.

Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Estate planning laws vary by state. Please consult a licensed estate planning attorney for advice specific to your situation.